Marriage isn’t some rom com that is just happily ever after forever. After being with the same person for awhile sometimes we forget how to have fun together, or how to “woo” each other. Being married, or engaged, or dating is a long haul commitment and so often I think we forget that we’re constantly changing, growing, and going through new seasons. With that growth (as good as it is) we have to choose to grow with our partners. Morgan and Cole are the dang cutest people I’ve ever met and DAMN do they know how to have a good time together!
You mean we actually have to talk to each each other?! but yes – It starts with some talking, laughing, and dancing. Maybe you feel a bit silly at first but as you start whispering to each other and just rolling with it you start having the most amazing time. Communicating is like an art form, we all do it a bit differently and are at different skill levels which means it’s extra important to learn about how each other do it.
2. Learn Each Other’s Love Language
Do you really love giving little gifts but maybe your partner doesn’t seem to care? Maybe they would love it more if you did a chore that they normally do or spent extra time asking about their day. There are five love languages and the more I get to know my couples the more I realize that we all have different ones.
3. Go on Dates!
And don’t ever give it up! Actively PLAN them! You will not regret it. I mean just look at how fun this picnic date is!
4. Eat and Drink Together
I mean pretty self explanatory but trying new food and seeing new places, even if we just stay in Reno is one of my favorite things.
5. Just Have Fun
Don’t stress it so much! Just focus on the love of your life and let what comes come. We all have a set number of years on this life and sometimes the details or little arguments just aren’t worth it so let it go and relax.
No matter what you do just do it with love.